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1 week ago
©apriki
I want to hear your thoughts on Narcissa. Is she morally grey like Snape or is she good, or evil?

apriki:

I love Narcissa, and i find the Black sisters/Black family the most fascinating secondary characters in the series (this may be because theyre based on the Mitford sisters, and im certain this is at least part of their complexity and appeal), and Narcissa is definitely my favourite mother figure in the series - because lets be real, motherhood is handled pretty badly throughout.

What I love about the Malfoys in the series is that they’re there as an example of moral relativity - that it is very rare to find pure evil, and even those who are vilified by other characters or the text itself still have whole lives and loves and loyalities that may pass unseen but still contribute to the person that they are.

As ive said before, the series charts Harry’s transition from childhood to adulthood, and we as the reader follow him through that journey - we learn when he learns and grow when he grows. Thats why in the first book, Draco is a two-dinemsional rival for Harry, nasty in a very childish way - but by the sixth book he is a flawed and frightened young man, under pressure to become a murderer or else see his family murdered - and Harry, who understands better than most what it feels like to grow up too quickly, sees his dislike for Draco change to sympathy and pity.

This concerns Narcissa, of course, as her storyline revolves around Draco - we only ever see her in scenes either with him or about him (the Unbreakable Vow scene, for example). It is important for us to see that even someone as nasty as Draco has a mother who will put her life on the line for him, as a parallel to Harry and Lily (this parallel is intentional and comes full circle in the Forbidden Forest scene), but it also tells us a lot about Narcissa herself. We know that she has one sister who walks the path of radical extremism, and another who turned her back on her world in favour of a different life, but Narcissa is the one who finds a balance in the society shes been raised in - which is essentially wizard fascism - and what she truly loves and cherishes - her own family. The amount of bravery it would take to be in Voldemort’s inner circle whilst defying him every time his motives put Lucius or Draco in danger really cant be overstated - I would say Narcissa is one of the bravest characters in the series, by far. (This is what bothers me about sorting!!! Are we saying slytherins can’t be brave, or loyal? They are consistently some of the most loyal and fiercely loving characters across the gamut).

I wish we had learned more about Narcissa and her sisters - the way they were raised, what wizarding high society is like, their relationships with their parents, their peers, each other - I mean, i can look at the characters we know and make guesses, but theres just such a rich backstory there and ughhh i /want/ it

(As a side note - I love that Narcissa is linked in-text to Snape. The Unbreakable Vow chapter is one of my favourites of the whole series and rereading it knowing the full context adds so many layers of nuance - Narcissa begging Snape to look out for her son as he’s looked out for Harry for countless years, entering into a vow that he knows will clash with his charge to protect Harry, but doing it anyway because of his complex feelings re: motherhood, the two members of Voldemorts inner circle who will be instrumental in his downfall due to their unconditional love conspiring together and being bound by Voldemort’s most faithful lieutanant and possibly the only person who loves him, Wormtail (a man who has never been loyal in his life, but was sorted into the house assosciated with loyalty) listening to Snape (considered by almost everyone to be treacherous and untrustworhy, but who chooses to define himself by loyalty) make an Unbreakable Vow - it is seriously the b e s t GO READ IT AGAIN NOW)

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1 week ago
©scottmycall

scottmycall:

"She told herself that there were powers stronger than hatred, and spells older and truer than any the maegi had learned in Asshai. The night was black and moonless, but overhead a million stars burned bright. She took that for an omen… And when the bleak dawn broke over an empty horizon, Dany knew that he was truly lost to her. “When the sun rises in the west and sets in the east,” she said sadly. “When the seas go dry and mountains blow in the wind like leaves. When my womb quickens again, and I bear a living child. Then you will return, my sun-and-stars, and not before.”… She knelt, kissed Drogo on the lips, and pressed the cushion down across his face.”

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1 week ago
©kaware

iwannalaughallyourtearsaway:

It’s Okay It’s Love(2014)

This drama is tragically and beautifully written. We rarely see the deglamorized reality of Mental Illness and the stigmas that come with it. I would highly suggest this drama to everyone! You don’t even have to be a drama fan to appriciate this amazingly well written story.

—    #re: mental illness    #psychology   
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1 week ago
©mymodernmet

mymodernmet:

Meet Garfi, the world’s angriest cat. The seemingly wrathful kitty, who lives with his owner Hulya Ozkok in Turkey, has a permanently furrowed brow that just naturally makes him appear like a fluffy, orange ball of rage.

—    #me   
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1 week ago
©grey-violet

grey-violet:

Stage Musicals.
The ones filmed on stage are not always the best quality. I tried to include every version I could find. Most of these are the movie versions, if a version was available. Enjoy!
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1 week ago
©chuckspinkshoes

chuckspinkshoes:

My word, Madam, if I were brave enough, I would commission you a Colonel in one of my regiments.

—    #tv: outlander    #claire beauchamp   
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1 week ago
©oldcharethcutestory

Favourite Photoshoots: Eva Green (asked by anonymous)

—    #eva green   
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1 week ago
©holycomicblogbatman

Talk shit, get hit

Justice League #011

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1 week ago
©pinkmanwhite

Pleasantville (1998)

—    #film: pleasantville   
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1 week ago
©godzillar

A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away…

(requested by earthlightened)

—    #star wars saga   
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1 week ago
©gingerrogerss
—    #ruth wilson   
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1 week ago
©wednesdaydreams

wednesdaydreams:

“In both the book and film, Nick is the Mediocre Man™. He is the average dude that gets raised up everyday for the sheer fact of being white, straight, and able-bodied. He was born with life insurance in the form of a penis. We see this when Nick returns home, received by his hometown like, as Amy’s mother says, “prom king.” When women fawn over him in his saddened state. When, with his sister’s money, he hires a multimillion-dollar lawyer who specializes in the cottage industry of getting husbands off the hook for murdering their wives. But most importantly, in contrast to Amy and her brimming brain, Nick is boring. He drinks at the bar he bought with his wife’s money; like a bad cliché, he fucks his 20-something student. While Nick is shuffling around his dying town in bad button-up shirts, Amy is living a rich life of intriguing revenge. It’s no surprise, then, that the first laugh of this dark rom-com comes at Nick’s expense: he’s first seen carrying the board game Mastermind under his arm. After this, the laughs don’t stop. Nick lives in a comically imaginary world where women are lead detectives and their authority is never questioned (Detective Rhonda Boney); a world where women seemingly run the media and set the stories of the day (pundits Ellen Abbott and Sharon Schieber). Hilariously, Nick lives in a fantasy world where a woman’s story about domestic abuse is believed and not ruthlessly questioned and continually reframed. It’s a made-up world of Men’s Rights delusion where a woman’s word is said to be more powerful than that of a man’s. Nick can’t take it. “I’m tired of women picking on me,” he opines early on in the film. Played straight by Affleck, the line is comedy gold.”

— Kiva Reardon, Patriarchal Parody: The Rom-Com Logic of David Fincher

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1 week ago
©connietough

connietough:

“Even though it’s coming out of the mouth of a sociopath, the “Cool Girl” speech resonates with a lot of people. It’s kind of the heart of the book, but we only get a taste of it in the movie. How did it all come about in the first place? It came about as a writing exercise. Whenever I kind of have writer’s block, I don’t let myself stop writing, but I’ll back away and kind of approach things differently, like these old-fashioned college-writing-class exercises. And so, at the time, Amy didn’t write quizzes. She wrote a column for a women’s magazine. And I thought, I’ll write a column from Amy’s point of view. And I wrote two or three columns, and I wrote the “Cool Girl” column when I was like in a fugue state, all in one afternoon. I never got up. I was just sweating over the keyboard, I was so into it. And I had never really articulated any of that before, and then I really liked it. One of my rules about writing exercises is you never are allowed to put them in your book because it’s just too tempting. You try to shoehorn things that don’t belong. So I didn’t put it in the book for a long time, but I just liked it so much, and it did feel like it came from Amy. It did feel like it had to do with personas and trying on things. It did resonate with what she had been doing. So I felt it was fair play to put that in there. And I’m so glad I did because that’s the one thing I hear about all the time from people. I think it validates Amy a little bit. First of all, it explains where she’s coming from, but it also explains the tremendous pressure that’s on women, not in a boo-hoo, poor us kind of way, but acknowledging that idea that, good God, there’s something wrong with the fact that we’re constantly willing to make ourselves over for men, that we’re so interested in pleasing men in a way that men would never do for women. As she says, you don’t see men suddenly becoming experts on Jane Austen and joining knitting clubs the way women will teach themselves something. I’m not saying all women do this, or that just because a woman says she likes football means she’s faking it. I love video games. I’d be really pissed off if someone said I loved video games because I was trying to be a Cool Girl. But I see so many couples where the woman goes out of her way to try to get why her boyfriend or husband likes certain things, and tries to get involved in it in a way that’s not often reciprocated. I think it’s a very female trait to want to please men, and to want to be considered the Cool Girl. And if you take that to the farthest reach where you’re actually selling yourself out, and degrading yourself by doing things you don’t actually want to do, only in order for this man to think that you do, that’s a very perverse thing. That’s like, “Yeah, you win! Larry, let’s tell her what she’s won. She’s won a lifetime of pretending to be someone that she’s not, and for someone to like her for the wrong reasons!” You know? I like that it’s become kind of shorthand. We all know what we’re talking about when we’re talking about Cool Girl. It’s the putting up with machismo bullshit, and smiling and nodding when you know better. That has a lot to do with it. There’s the pretending, the pretend aspect, but it’s also, “Sure, that’s great!” when it’s not. It’s pretty cool that it’s taken off. It’s a worthwhile conversation to have, and to continue having. There’s not a right answer to it, necessarily. And I don’t think to a certain extent that it’s a bad thing. I remember seeing There’s Something About Mary in the theaters when I was in my 20s, and there’s Cameron Diaz, who looks like Cameron Diaz, but she’s also a doctor, and she also loooves hamburgers, and she starts out playing golf in the morning, and all she wants from a man is a guy who wants to take her to a football game, and she wants to eat hot dogs and drink real beer. Real beer! And I thought, Wow, that’s a cool girl! And then I thought, Oh, right. She’s been invented by guys.”

— Gillian Flynn, Vulture

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1 week ago
©macbets

macbets:

this man of mine may k i l l m e

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1 week ago
©chrispratt

The man of my dreams.
This man of mine may kill me.
This man may truly kill me.

SP
c u r r e n t l y

reading:
the secret history
- donna tartt
&
sharp objects
- gillian flynn

watching:
glue
how to get away with murder
homeland
red band society
new girl
a to z
selfie
reign
the vampire diaries
masters of sex
the affair
gotham
forever
peaky blinders
la femme nikita
cold case

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